Sunday, May 30, 2010

Mommy Brain Monday: May 31, 2010

What's bouncing around in my mommy brain this Monday? Some cool stuff, some funny stuff, some weird stuff...you know, the usual!

*No cell phone until high school....but you can date. I love articles like this one, about appropriate ages for things like cell phones, dating, sleepovers, camp, and chores for kids. I love them, of course, because I can compare "how it was when I was a kid" to "how it should be according to the 'experts" to "how it really is in MY house, and my friends' houses." According to the experts in this particular article, Elle should be snapping the ends off of beans as a chore, and I should be asking about the presence of firearms in the home before Skyler's spend-the-night parties. Who knew?

* Favorite part of Shrek Forever After? This. Really.:




I think I need a Cholive: In my past past life, I traveled the country, selling candy for a living. And delicious crunchy snacks, too. And since old habits die hard, I savored (haha) every word of this article on the latest from the Sweets & Snacks Expo. Cholives, Perky Jerky, and the Chocolate Waterfall Bar are all on the way to a retailer near you.

Spaghetti Squash + Soy Sauce = ?????? Thanks lifehacker, for the heads up on Recipe Chimp. Here's the deal, fellow moms. Look in the refrigerator. What needs to GO, stat? Type the item(s) into the handy little box at recipechimp.com, followed by your family's fave seasonings/flavorings that you have on hand, and click. And there you go! Up pops a list of recipes to choose from, plus a quick list of any additional ingredients you need. Recipe Chimp compiles the recipes from recipe sites all over the web. (The usual Internet magic). So my spaghetti squash that's been sitting there for a loooong time? Sesame Peanut Spaghetti Squash. Also great for using up ingredients that you bought for a specific dish and now have way too much left over, and figuring out what to do with sale items.

"What's On Your Butt?" and other Ba-Rilliant Games You Can Play With Your Kid While You're Lying Down: Thank you, Saundra Goldman, whoever you are. These games that you can play while lying down (and in some cases, drifting in and out of consciousness) are truly inspired. Perfect for summer in Miami, when the weather alone is exhausting.

That's all for this Mommy Brain Monday, my Miami mommies! Stay cool, and have a great Memorial Day!

photo credit: sxc.hu/artM

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Miami's Somerset Academy Coral Gables Charter School: My Notes from the Saturday, May 22 Information Exchange

This past Saturday, the Somerset Gables Parents Association held an "information exchange" about Somerset Academy Coral Gables Charter School. The Gables charter school (awaiting approval from the City) has been all the buzz at Elle's preschool recently, as several of the parents are familiar with and speak highly of Somerset Academy South Miami, which has a wonderful reputation, and accordingly, a waiting list.
At the meeting, I jotted down notes from the Q&A session, and will regurgitate the info below. Really--"regurgitate" is the appropriate word--this is just a quick and dirty transcription of what I wrote down as I listened. Nothing official! I decided to post the notes here for anyone who is interested in the school and knows a little bit about the proposed school, but was not able to make the meeting. If anyone has additional info, or corrections, or a different take on things, please chime in in the comments section. Remember, these are just my personal notes, and not a full transcript of everything that was discussed! If you have specific questions, you really should contact the school directly (see links below.)
FWIW, I suggest that you visit these links, too:

Here are my notes:
* The school will ultimately serve Pre-K3 through 8th grade.
* For the first and second year of operation, students through 6th grade will be accepted to the school, and will gradually populate 7th and 8th grades.
* Somerset Academy requires 30 volunteer hours of the parents. Parent participation is KEY.
* All schools are accredited, and Somerset Academy is the first charter school in the nation to be awarded District Accreditation from the Southern Association of Colleges and Schools.
* "Collaboration" is a key word at Somerset
* Somerset Gables will offer a dual-language program (like the South Miami school), SMART boards, the Carnegie program, all students will work on laptops. This is a very tech-focused school.
* Spanish will definitely be one of the languages offered, the second language will be determined according to feedback from the applications of interest, but at this time it looks like it will be Mandarin Chinese.
* Because this is a charter school, students do take the FCAT, but there is no "teaching to the test"; rather, the standards are taught and the educators believe that if students master the standards, the test scores will fall into place.
* No FCAT packets, no cancelling other classes before FCAT to drill.
* At one local Somerset school, no more textbooks at this point--instead students use computer programs and "inquiry-style" hands-on learning and working with the teachers.
* The school will occupy the existing UBC church building.
* Teachers are certified
* Parent involvement is key
* After school sports will be offered
* Preschool is full-day preschool
* Arts, PE, and dance are incorporated into the school day as required by Miami-Dade County Schools
* There is no space for a PE field, so there will be creativity when it comes to PE. Examples given were Pilates, martial arts, circuit training. One principal from another school explained that when her school opened, they also had very little space for traditional PE (baseball, soccer, etc) and they creatively and successfully solved that problem. "Look at the limitations and think outside the box." There is a courtyard that will be used for PE
* The War Memorial Youth Center facilities will not be used for PE
* Parents of children with special needs should make an appointment with the principal to discuss.
* Maybe no gifted program the first year, but gifted students will be accommodated in other ways.
* Gifted program may end up being dedicated gifted classes, or may be accelerated/AP classes--depends on how the school population falls.
* Dual language means one hour of instruction in alternate language each day (first year)
* "How much homework?" one parent asked. Hard to say, because each child is different, but example given was 45 minutes to 1 hour 15 minutes for a third grader.
* Scott Foresman math program used. Several different reading and math programs incorporated.
* For kindergarten and first grade there is an aide in every classroom. Upper grades there are shared aides. Parents may choose to fundraise for additional classroom aides.
* Special needs-- IEP mainstream as much as possible. For testing, whatever is on the IEP.
* PreK3 & 4 kids will learn letters, sight words, begin spelling, dual language, use computers.
* Phonics are taught in PreK.
* Student - teacher ratio is as mandated by MDCPS, roughly 18/teacher K-3, 20-22/teacher 4-8 schoolwide average
* 675 students will populate the school
* over 900 applications of interest so far (rumored)
* preK3&4 primarily intended for siblings of K-8 students.
* Aftercare will be offered, will be separated somewhat by grade/age (K/1/2, 3/4/5, etc) they will not throw all the age groups in aftercare together.
* First enrollment period closed end of April.
* Second enrollment period will close end of May.
* They will populate the school from top to bottom after giving preference to students living within a 2-mile radius of the school.
* Families outside the 2-mile-radius are still eligible, but only if there is space available.
* Siblings also given preference. For example, if your fifth grader is given a slot, your third grader will have preference when they begin populating the third grade class.
* Kindergarten and sixth grades tend to have the most applications in an existing school.
* The 2-mile-radius preference was created because they really want a neighborhood school.
* Teachers are on yearly contracts. Teacher evaluation and motivation includes 2 formal evaluations per year, and administrators are observing in the classrooms every day. Constant walkthroughs. New educators are visited and evaluated more often.
* Nutritional program follows rules of National School Lunch Program, but parent feedback is key in this area. For example, on Somerset school in central Florida just became all organic, with much of the food grown on the campus, and Somerset SoMi just revamped their lunch program as a result of parent focus and feedback.
* Recess daily? 15/minutes per day is required for some grades.
* As far as how high achievers will be accommodated in 8th grade (since there is no 9th grade curriculum at the school) one principal explained that she uses clusters and virtual online learning program with a teacher present.
* For the dual language program, the second language instruction is with a separate teacher (not the classroom teacher).
* As far a bullying, in addition to the MDCPS guidelines, Somerset has an additional, stricter student code of conduct that addresses behavior. If needed, students are given "individual behavior contracts". Also a Parent Contract and Parent Compact for all parents.
* No priority given to UBC members or gifted.
* If opening is postponed, they will have a new enrollment period (start from scratch)
* Opening awaiting city approval
* AllUniforms is their uniform vendor
* Pre-K3/4 will be tuition based. Don't know cost yet, but probably in the range of $490 - $590 per month.
* Preschoolers attend from 8:30 - 2 like kindergarteners
* Music and art teachers are certified in music and art.
* Very good relationship with Miami-Dade County Schools charter school office.
* One hour of art per week, one hour of music, and some schools have dance.
* Will likely be 8:30 - 2 K-2, 8:30 - 3 for 3,4,5. Middle school staggered arrival and dismissal.
* Architect spoke and answered questions, explained that he inherited an ideal situation facility-wise, and they over the summer would be working on small upgrades, painting, repairs.
* Traffic flow is an issue, so no walking students to class after the first week, but there will be teachers stationed at drop off and pickup areas to assure that things go smoothly. They will walk groups of kids to classrooms, and teachers and administrators will be in the halls before school starts to make sure kids get to class and are not lost or frightened. Preschool kids will be walked to class by parents.
* Orientation before school starts to help students and parents familiarize themselves with the building.
* Staff members will walk little ones to class from drop-off area.
* Communication with teachers largely by phone, email, conferences, and appointments.
* Building has capacity for 1000 students, and has been used for years for religious education classes so more than enough space for the 675 Somerset students.
* differences between Miami-Dade County Public Schools and a charter school include less micromanagement so administrators can be involved in education rather than micromanagement, they specifically hire teachers who are creative and think outside of the box and allow them to teach creatively, teachers are very empowered, more accessible to parents, if there is an issue or need with a teacher they are provided with immediate professional development. The management company (Academica) takes away the bureaucracy.
* The traffic plan is currently being discussed with the City.
* School not approved by the City of Coral Gables yet, no idea when this will happen. Opening could be postponed.

photo credit: sxc.hu/ante3

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Today, Elementary School. Tomorrow, Club Madonna?




So, yeah. Those girls are (allegedly) 7. Great dancers, but WHAT are they wearing, and WHY does their choreography include those too-sexy-for-grade-school moves? I read through some of the YouTube comments on this video, and most seemed to have the same reaction, including several current and former dance team members who were really surprised at both the routine and the costume.
At the same time, other than declaring in a high-pitched, shrill voice that "it's inappropriate!", I have a hard time justifying exactly why I was so distressed by this whole scene. In reality, is a little hip rolling and booty shaking on stage at age seven going to send these ladies to a future at Club Madonna? Probably not. It's like the Bratz uproar a few years back. Is playing with a doll that looks like a slut going to contribute to your daughter becoming a slut? I argued then, and would still argue now, "no."
So is this a veiled case of mommy judgement? Am I really just tsk-tsking at the parents and choreographers with the weird sense of what a "totally awesome dance routine" would be for these young ladies?
I think that innocent kids dancing around to this admittedly catchy, pervasive, and danceable song on their own is cute and natural, and whatever. And I know that kids today are exposed to more mature themes in the media, simply because as a society today, we allow more. Kids will be kids, and they will mimic not only what they see and hear in the media, but what the pick up at school, from friends, and from older brothers and sisters. But adults orchestrating parts of a public stage routine that includes sexy costumes and dance moves is not only a parenting fail, but in a way a betrayal of these little girls. The adults clearly wanted to make an impression on this audience at the World of Dance, and chose to do it via these girls, who are now being called talented but "inappropriate" (to put it nicely), all over the internet.
Thoughts? Do any of you cheerleading moms or dance moms ever veto costumes or moves in the routines that you think are too mature?


Monday, May 10, 2010

Mommy Brain Monday: May 10, 2010

What's bouncing around in my mommy brain this Monday? Some cool stuff, some funny stuff, some weird stuff...you know, the usual!

* If only the gerbil didn't have dibs: Love this idea from You Grow Girl of starting seeds in toilet paper rolls (which I discovered via ParentHacks, natch). It's not rocket science or anything, but she gives step-by-step instructions and photos for the process at the website. You just plant the whole shebang and the t.p. roll will dissolve after it is planted. Great kid friendly gardening project! (Of course, Skyler's gerbil would probably go through withdrawal if we cut him off of his supply of t.p. rolls for gnawing.)

* Read about this very cool service that is available in Miami called Bagster: Dumpster in a Bag. It kind of looks like a reeeeallly giant IKEA bag, to me--and I mean REALLY giant: it holds up to 3300 pounds of debris or waste. You buy it all folded up at Home Depot for about $29, and when you're ready to clean out your garage, re-landscape your yard or remodel your kitchen, you unfold it, set it up, and start filling it with 3300 pounds of junk--you can even throw a bathtub in there! Then you call for local pickup ($119 for the first bag, $99 for additional bags). Much less expensive and less obnoxious than having one of those metal dumpsters sitting in your yard, and according to the website, the Bagster can hold just as much waste as a rental dumpster.

* Can't help it--I'm still digging Ke$ha's Tik Tok. Especially when the Simpson's rock out to it here:



* Ah, Hugo, you had me at "tool of terror". Which is how Chavez apparently described Twitter BEFORE he got his own Twitter account, and hired twenty, yes twenty, staffers to manage it. As is typical of your average megalomaniac, Chavez has 268,058 followers, but follows only...5. Oh, and as far as that "tool of terror" business? Now that he is the #1 Twitter-user in Venezuela, he's explained that Twitter is "a weapon that also needs to be used by the revolution."

* Gummy Bear Surgeries. Need I say more to make you click on this link? I think not. Go on, click to see this gallery of Experimental Gummy Bear Surgeries. Bizarre, yet totally adorable. And makes me want to eat gummy bears. Mmmmmm. Thank you to Lisa's Weekend Coffee Links at the Outspoken Media blog for this one!

Friday, May 7, 2010

Miami Playground Guide: Merrie Christmas Park Playground


Date of Visit: 5/6/2010
Time of Day: 11 AM - 12:30 PM
Weather: sunny with a breeze, mid-to-high 80s
Summary of Visit: We live within walking distance of this big park, so we head there a lot on the bikes, trikes, scooter, etc. Today, Elle was really wanting a bike ride to the park, and to be honest, I was a little hesitant, because it was pretty HOT out, and also, this park is VERY hit or miss as far a playmates of Elle's age (3) during the day. But we lucked out, and there was another adorable little girl of 3 that Elle ran around with for an hour or so, and the nice breeze made the heat a non-issue.

Shaded? All of the play equipment has shades. Note--if you go at midday, the shade is only halfway effective, and only some of the equipment will be useable depending on where the shadows hit. The swings are always shaded by a big, gorgeous tree, and there are many spots throughout the park that have shaded picnic tables and benches.
Fenced? The park is not fenced, but the playground is. Note--he gate latches aren't very secure, and both kids and adults at this playground are kind of slack about checking the latch when they enter/leave. The swings are not fenced. Although the park isn't fenced, it is very large, so you shouldn't have any trouble finding a spot far enough away from the bordering streets if you want to play ball or run around with the little one. Unfortunately, the playground with the loose gate latches is located a little too close to busy Lejeune Road, so again, make sure your little one doesn't sneak out of the gate and run up the sidewalk towards the traffic if someone leaves the playground gate unlatched.
Surface: The playground has two sections that have the spongy surface,and the sections are surrounded by grass. The swing area is spongy surface.
Parking: There is a gravel lot on Lejeune that accomodates about fifteen cars. Space only gets tight in early evenings during soccer practice, and occasionally on weekends if there are parties in the park. Beware parking along Barbarossa where the "no parking" signs are posted--I've seen tickets being given during soccer practice.
Swings? Yes, set apart a little from the rest of the play area outside the fenced area, but still within sight. There are four swings for "big kids" and two baby swings.
Water fountain: Yes
Bathroom Report: No. I think the closest decent bathroom is probably the Don Pan at Lejeune and US1.
Interesting Equipment:There is a slanted rock wall for younger climbers, taller rock wall for older kids. Low monkey bars for little ones. And while a tree is not "equipment", older kids will LOVE swinging on the sturdy vines that hang from the banyan trees all over the park. These are great for climbing too, especially the ones right by the playground, but watch for broken glass.
Parent Vantage Point: Lots of seating options all over--they installed new benches throughout the park recently.
Snack Attack: Bring your own. There is a well-stocked convenience store at the corner of Lejeune and US1, also a Don Pan at the same intersection.
Picnicability:Excellent. There are a few picnic tables, and plenty of grass to spread your blanket.
Grass: Lots of it.
Animal Activity: Mid-level. In the early evenings, a group does get together in one part of the park with their off-leash dogs, but they are easy enough to avoid. No poop problem that I've noticed. As far as other animals, just your everyday birds, lizards, bugs, etc.
What to pack: Snacks, wipes, water, bubbles, sidewalk chalk, sunscreen, picnic blanket, bug repellent if you go at dusk, a handheld fan mister if you go in the summertime.

Park @ Large: There are tons of trees for shade and climbing, picnic tables, new benches, a playground with separated equipment for the little ones and the older ones, sloping grassy hills for tumbling, shaded swings, shaded play areas, and soccer goals. This park is most popular in the early evenings after the sun has gone down a bit--you'll find parents who have just gotten home from work, soccer practice, and a playground full of all-ages siblings of the young soccer players. Big grassy lawns are great for new walkers and wild running toddlers. On weekends, you'll almost always find a birthday party or two, adult soccer games, and sunbathers. And then there is what I call "the sidewalk to nowhere"--it is a sidewalk that starts in the parking area on a medium-steep hill, and levels out, ending kind of in the middle of the park. It's great for practicing new ride-on equipment, or for more adventurous kids who are jonesing for some kind of incline in our largely flat locale. You'll see bikes, ripsticks, skates, scooters, big wheels, and motorized toy cars running up and down the "road to nowhere."

What I Love: Well, obviously I love the fact that it is within walking distance of my house! But aside from that, there is plenty of shaded seating, the wide open lawns are fun for playing ball, and when Elle was younger, it was really nice to have the play equipment designed for younger munchkins, with their own smaller slides and climbing ladders.
What Bugged Me: No bathrooms are kind of a pain, though since our house is close, it is not a tragedy for me (but it would be otherwise). In the mornings on weekdays, there aren't many preschool kids--it's mostly by babies and young toddlers. After lots of rain, this park gets super-buggy. I wish the latches on the gates in the playground area were a bit more secure.

miamybabymama tips:
* Don't park along Barbarossa where the "No Parking" signs are posted. You don't usually see parking tickets being issued in residential areas, but I have seen tickets being written during soccer practice on more than one occasion.
* If you're hitting this park in the early evening, bring mosquito repellent. Especially if we've been having daily rains for a while.
* Remember--no bathrooms!!--so plan ahead. If you need a close-by bathroom, the best bet is probably the Don Pan at US1 and Lejeune.
* If you're going at one of the previously mentioned "busy times", take a beach towel or blanket to sit on in case the benches are taken around the playground.
* Older kids will really love swinging on the vines hanging from the banyan trees, and climbing the trees too.

Location:
Corner of Lejeune Road & Barbarossa Ave.
Coconut Grove, FL 33133

photo credit: bcsilva/sxc.hu